What makes an apology land for you? Take this quiz with your partner to discover your apology languages and repair conflict faster.
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Download Free →You have probably heard of the five love languages. Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas, working off the same research, found that apologies also have languages, five of them. Expressing regret ('I am sorry'), accepting responsibility ('I was wrong'), making restitution ('How can I make it right?'), genuinely repenting ('I will not do that again'), and requesting forgiveness ('Will you forgive me?'). Most of us hear an apology we reject, not because our partner did not apologize, but because they apologized in the wrong language. This quiz helps you find yours and your partner's. It is one of the most practical tools for reducing fights and recovering from them faster.
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