Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy

About Flirty Questions (Him) for Couples

60 Flirty Questions to Ask a Guy

• What's the first thing you noticed about me?
• Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
• What's your idea of a perfect date with me?
• If you could take me anywhere right now, where?
• What's the most romantic thing you've ever done?
• What's something about me that caught you off guard?
• Do you prefer good morning texts or goodnight texts?
• What's your love language?
• What would you do if I was right next to you right now?
• What's the boldest move you've ever made on someone?
• Truth or dare, which do you usually pick?
• What's your biggest green flag?
• What do you find most attractive in a person?
• If I dared you to do something right now, would you do it?
• On a scale of 1-10, how much do you like talking to me? 😏
• What's your honest opinion of my last text?
• Do you ever reread our conversations?
• How long did you wait before replying to my first message?
• What emoji describes how you feel about me right now?
• What's a message you typed out and deleted before sending?
• If you had to sum me up in one text, what would it say?
• What's something small I do that you find attractive?
• What's the first thing you'd want me to notice about you?
• Do you think you're a good kisser, or should I be the judge?
• What's a compliment you'd give me if you weren't nervous?
• What's your type, and how close am I?
• What do you think I find most attractive about you?
• If I showed up at your door right now, what would we do?
• What's something you'd dare me to do?
• How would you react if I kissed you right now?
• What's the most trouble you'd get into for me?
• If we got stuck in an elevator for an hour, how would we pass the time?
• What's a rule you'd break for the right person?
• What would you plan if you had 24 hours with me and no budget?
• Where would you take me if you were trying to impress me?
• What song would be playing in the background of our perfect night?
• Would you rather cook for me or take me out?
• What's your ideal lazy Sunday with someone you like?
• What movie would you put on as an excuse to sit closer?
• What made you decide to talk to me in the first place?
• When did you first realize you liked me?
• What's something you've wanted to tell me but haven't?
• What do you think we'd argue about?
• What was the last thing you thought about before falling asleep?
• Do you think we'd have found each other if we'd met somewhere else?
• If we swapped lives for a day, what's the first thing you'd do?
• If our chemistry were a weather forecast, what would it say?
• What would the trailer for our story look like?
• If I gave you one free pass to ask me anything, what would it be?
• What nickname would you give me if you could get away with it?
• What's an attractive habit of yours you don't realize you have?
• Do you get nervous around me, or is that just me?
• What's the boldest thing you've ever texted someone?
• How do you know when you actually like someone?
• What's something you'd never admit sober?
• What's a look you've caught me giving you?
• If I asked you out right now, what would you say?
• What's your idea of a perfect goodnight?
• What do you want me to remember about tonight?
• What's a question you've been hoping I'd ask?

Tap the game above to play through them one at a time.

How to play Flirty Questions (Him)

1. Grab your partner, sit face-to-face or curl up on the couch.
2. Open this page on a phone or laptop and tap to start.
3. Take turns answering, reacting, and asking follow-up questions.
4. No timer, no pressure, the goal is to slow down and connect.

Why couples love this game

Psychologists find that novel, playful experiences release dopamine and rebuild attraction in long-term relationships. Flirty Questions (Him) works because it creates a structured excuse to ask things you'd normally skip, and laugh at the answers together. A handful of prompts is often enough to turn a regular Tuesday into a real date night.

Tips to make it more fun

• Put phones face-down for anything unrelated to the game.
• Set the mood, dim lights, a drink, zero distractions.
• If an answer surprises you, ask "why?" before moving on.
• Rotate who goes first each round so it stays balanced.
• Save your favorite answers, they're gold to laugh about later.

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