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Red Flag or Green Flag?

Is it a red flag, a green flag, or does it depend? Rate relationship behaviors and see if you and your partner agree.

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About Red/Green Flag for Couples

The Red Flag / Green Flag game took TikTok by storm and became one of the most popular relationship discussion formats online. It works because it surfaces values and boundaries in a playful, non-confrontational way. What one person sees as a green flag, another might see as a red flag โ€” and those differences spark the most interesting conversations about what really matters to each of you.

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between a red flag and a dealbreaker?+
A red flag is a warning sign worth discussing. A dealbreaker is a non-negotiable. This game helps couples explore where those lines are for each of them.
Why do couples disagree on red/green flags?+
Different life experiences, values, and attachment styles shape what we see as concerning or appealing. Disagreements are normal and healthy to discuss!
Is this game good for new relationships?+
Great for new relationships! It helps you learn about each other's boundaries and values early, in a fun and non-confrontational way.

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